Yeah so hi!

Me's a back.

Now that enough of Star Wars terrible characters refences.

Lots of subtle changes happening in my life. I found out I had Glaucoma, treatable but not reversible. I've realised the value of friendship over relationships, now that I am divorced, and learned alot more about being careful who to trust and when to know you are being used, tricked or how to help someone when it's needed and to recognise that. My Aspergers ADHD Disabilities and Nuances get in the way of living life normally but I have good friends who have simular issues and can relate and even go through coping mechanism and even make new ways of living with it together with me.

Today was good. My second of two day off normally running my own bike shop at leeli cycles.

Went to Royal Oak in Crawley shopping about for random stuff with my friend Laura. Got my mum some shopping too. 

My dad's away enjoying tending to his little hut in his patch of land in Devon. We'll all be down there soon for a little family holiday at a nearby caravan holiday park. Also just been on a short break with Laura at Camber Sands. 

Awful weather but an enjoyable experience all the time. Weather isn't everything. Us brits love to call cold air wind and rain awful and bad weather. 

But I guess we don't like to feel cold and have time ice particles being flung at our dace by pressure changes at the vest of times despite it being like that p we etty often here in Blighty!

Also went to see a few friends I haven't seen in a while a month back, Steve and Natalie, who happen to be married to eachother after getting to know eachother. Its pretty cool!

Alot of ups and downs for my friends at the moment, and I hope that changes for them. Time is a healer they say. I wouldn't say that but I will say that taking time to learn to except things that are hard and upsetting that we can't control or change no matter how hard we try is what it really means. Also having good friendships where support is mutual is also good!

Anyway just philosophising now, my options aren't always fact and everyone has the right to disagree with them.

Oh there I go again haha.

Hope everyone who knows me here has something good happen for them soon!

Ciao!

 

First time out in a while

It's my first time going out since 11 December after fracturing my skull leading to a bleed on the brain and I do t remember it happening. It was vwey icy that jight though. 

Also just spent my first week reopening the shop since the incident.

At first my family suspected it was just a hangover, but it was not as there were no other hangover symptoms and it last more then 3 days, which then prompted an A &  E visit, and one particularly bad day an Ambulance to hospital. And a third visit resulting in a second MRI scan.

After a month I am now having to deal with a concussion which I am told will take some time to go away, up to even a year.

Anyway I am now able drive again since this happened (passed my test I'm October after putting off driving lessons since i was 16.

So yeasterday I went for an eye test whixh went well, and I had a really good day seeing my friend Laura, and her lovely cats Amber and Merlin.

Seeing her reminded me of what a great bond we have, and how we can easily just sit and chat for hours with such ease!

It was so refreshing.being ae to be out of the house and to spend time with my best friend. She really is a star!

We got a delicious Pizza from the local Tesco (I drove us there). I also saw the paintings I'd made for her whicb she had meticulously framed. They looked great on the wall and I am happy se likes them!

Then we watched the Virgin Rocket Launch from a 747 in Newquay on TV, but the satellite deployment fail due to jot raxhing full orbit. The only detail a a that there was an anomaly so far.

Laura had a peek outside on her balcony and saw a Shooting Star! I also noticed this morning informing it was actually a Meteor! 

Plenty more happened like connect 4 too! We both managed to pin eachother and it was lots of fun playing! We didn't get as far as Runnikub though. But we probably will play that today as this is my 2nd of two days off.

Anyway I had an urge to record this day, it was a real smash!